I
met my first American when I was about ten years old, growing up in my native
England. It was quite a few more years before another one passed my way, and I
was in my twenties when I met more than a couple of them together. Now, of
course, living in New York, I’m surrounded by them. In fact, I actually live with one.
It’s
probably hard for an American to accept that, to the average stay-at-home
Britisher, an American is just another brand of foreigner, little different from
a Moroccan or a Madagascan. They look just as foreign, they speak a quite
different language, and they have a very, very different culture. George
Bernard Shaw -- note how we say that,
Bernurd (not Bernard) Shaw -- wasn’t entirely joking when he wrote of “two nations divided by a common language.”
The
British have a complicated view of Americans. On one hand, they have huge
respect for their attitude to democracy and freedom; they’re grateful to “The
Yanks” for saving their butts in two world wars; they have a healthy respect
for their innovativeness and technological genius, and most of them appreciate
the changes the Americans have wrought in almost every aspect of public
entertainment -- especially movies, TV
and jazz. And of course there’s a healthy regard for their contribution to
pretty much everything else in life that you can think of – space science,
medicine, and the convenience (if not the delights) of fast food.
But
it has to be said that, probably because they’re envious of Americans in so
many ways, the British have one or two negative attitudes, too. Many of them
look on Americans as over-indulged. They think they’re over-weight, over-paid,
over-medicated, and over psycho-analyzed. I say envy is the cause of these
views because the British are traditionally pitifully lower paid, and tend to
live much more spartan lives. They’ve
always been jealous of what they see as the average American’s material
standard of living, believing after watching countless sitcoms and movies, that
all 300 million+ Americans live in spacious homes with walk-in closets and
walk-in refrigerators, driving Cadillacs and Lincoln Continentals. They also
see America as over-opinionated and over-assertive on the world stage. Though
they wouldn’t admit it, this, too, is almost certainly because they envy
America’s replacement of the British and their empire as the leading world
power.
This
envy goes back a long way, but reached the British man-in-the-street in a real
and understandable way during World War II, when hundreds of thousands of US
sailors, soldiers and airman arrived in Britain at a time when the country was
desperately short of almost all of life’s necessities. The average GI earned several times more than
his British counterpart, so he had much, much more to spend in the village pub
and dance hall. His gabardine uniform was far smarter and form-flattering than
the British Tommy’s baggy, ill-fitting serge ‘battle-dress.’ It’s not
surprising that the GI’s, with their romantic, movie-star accents and boxes of
nylon stockings under their arms, made wall-flowers of the local boys. For much the same reasons British officers,
too, found themselves playing second fiddle to their allied comrades.
The
first American I ever met was a shy, self-effacing boy of my age called Lou
Taylor at my posh boarding school in England in the 1940s. He was the son of a
diplomat. Tall for his age, he had a slight stammer, and his hair fell over his
eyes giving him the look of a myopic sheep dog. Lou, who suddenly arrived in
the middle of a school semester, soon earned the nickname of ‘Long Island Lou.’
Lou was a likeable lad, but even he was a victim of envy. He had more toy
soldiers, guns and tanks and other enviable ‘stuff,’ and more food in his
tuck-box than any of us during stringent wartime rationing. It was Lou who gave
us our first taste of bubble-gum, home-made brownies and Hershey bars. It was
Lou whose parents came down from London to the school in the country most
weekends in a chauffeur-driven car, while our parents’ cars were on wooden
blocks in the garage at home because no gasoline was allowed for private use.
We never saw our parents from one end of term to the other. So for no fault of his, this quiet American
in miniature was a victim of exactly the same envies as his uncles in uniform.
But for all this talk of envy and resentment, it has to be
said that both peoples tend to view the other with considerable affection. The
Brits, stuffy and repressed, love the Yanks’ openness and lack of inhibition.
Although they may not admit it, they’re moved by images of the Statue of
Liberty and the World Trade Centre (er . . . Center). They get a buzz out of
old John Wayne movies, and the wide open spaces of the West. They don’t know
there are ugly strip malls in Phoenix and El Paso, and ghettos in Washington
DC. They used to look on Alastair Cook with almost Old Testament reverence. And
when their chill wet British winter sweeps in, it’s to Florida that they flock.
As for the Americans, they’d be lost without Downton Abbey and almost every Masterpiece Theater presentation, with its
plum-in-the-mouth lords and ladies, and tea parties with bone china and sterling
silver teapots in the fussy drawing-rooms of ancestral mansions. They don’t
know that an English muffin’s really a crumpet, or that you should let tea
infuse for at least five minutes and
always, always put the milk in the
cup first. American tourists never see the dark, satanic mills and streets in London’s
East End and the wind-blown, rain-drenched north. To them, every Londoner lives
within earshot of Big Ben, and Sherlock Holmes still hunts down villains in an
everlasting mist on the Yorkshire moors. And did the Americans weep any less
than the Limeys when Diana died, or stand in the crowd outside Buckingham
Palace and cheer when Kate married Prince William or when Prince Harry marries
Megan Markle?
People on both sides
of the Atlantic used to refer to the “special
relationship” between America and Britain. They still do, but nowadays you’ll
hear cynics decrying it. Things have changed, they say, and America’s future
peers are emerging in Asia and South America, specifically China, India and,
later, Brazil. But the special relationship has nothing to do with GDP, imports
and exports or economics. It developed not only historically and emotionally,
strengthened by that shared language, but also by victorious alliances in two
world wars, and two centuries of mutually beneficial cultural exchange.
Believe me, it’ll be a long, long time
before Chinese and Indian movies are week-by-week fare at your local multiplex.
I guarantee it.
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